Posts tagged love
Maybe one of the most beautiful parts of life is figuring out, on your own, that loving people, knowing how to love those people, and those people loving you back are three entirely different things.
Even if it takes tears and pain, the smile and the peace at the end of this process are priceless.
Can you feel the melancholia of the last day of this Summer? Well I do, it sounds like a loud silence, it feels a little bit like sadness and tastes a little bit like disappointment…
What I wanted from this Summer, and being also ready to be the best I can, was to not be alone… One of my biggest weakneses is that I expect too much from the people I care about, and some of them, the ones I care the most, sometimes are hurting me the most.
I don’t want to sound sad at all, this is just what I wanted to happen this Summer, what actually happened I think was better, I’ve learned a lot and I started to be more careful about the people I open my heart and soul to.
Unfortunately, you can make a wish every time the clock strikes 11:11, throw millions of coins into an old fountain and wish on every shooting star that lights up the night sky… If it’s not meant to be, it won’t happen.
Be grateful that everything happens for a reason and we always get what we deserve… So for tonight when August dies and September is born, call the person you like to spend time with the most and take a walk under the Moon light, through the city lights…
And for now? I am just enjoying some green tea while watching the last sunset of this Summer.
P.S. - Wake me up, when September ends…
It’s never wrong to love. Say it… Even if you won’t get the answer you want, you better skip the regret of not saying it.
P.S. - We always get what we deserve.
“We accept the love we think we deserve.”
― Stephen Chbosky
Darling you don’t seem like you’re really in love, you sound like you’re desperately trying to hold all the broken pieces of affection that are firing splinters into your heart.
When your eyes are red from crying but you smile and act normal when people ask if you feel okay, darling that is totally not love.
When you have to give up your life and what you like, to commit yourself to something you never wanted, please stop lying yourself it is love.
Love is not a war that you need to make excuses for, that you need to say “Maybe it hurts, but I know it’s out of love.” or “Perhaps I am getting insulted, but now I got the attention I want.”
P.S. - Take care of your heart.
And whenever you are in doubt remember that someone that loves you won’t try to change you, they will try to help you to be a better version of yourself.
It is normal, as a human being, to be affected by other people; Because people come and go, we all change and sometimes the one you love doesn’t feel the same for you and you can’t blame them because you can’t choose who you fall in love with.
Your biggest mission in this kind of situations is to not destroy yourself by forgetting that you are special too, don’t forget to love yourself and the most important to value yourself.
Life is a beautiful thing, never stop loving and doing what makes you feel happy; It’s never wrong to love… So until true love finds you respect yourself by feeding your heart and your soul with actions and things you love and make you feel happy.
P.S. - There is an old saying about ‘waiting’; Better things happen to those who wait.
But, darling, my feelings for you have begun to get wrinkles… And you know what it means, my feelings for you are on the edge, to death.
They say to not be afraid of losing someone who doesn’t feel lucky to have you around; Or doesn’t price you enough.
I would also like to add that we shouldn’t regret the time spent on the loyalty of our feelings for someone. I like to say that a loyal heart gives you a royal soul.
After all, we shouldn’t forget that mistakes are part of everyone's life, they are actually lessons; We should start to believe in second chances and that there are risks worth taking and tears worth crying for some people.
P.S - I also think it’s healthy for your heart to remind yourself from time to time that love doesn’t tastes like sadness or disappointments.